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For a long time I thought I was kind of ugly.
A couple of days I was talking to my shrink & she said the physical stuff I beat myself up over is a) fixable & b) stuff people largely don't care about.
Now I'm realizing that for my age, I'm actually pretty lucky in the looks department. I often read as younger than I am. I still have pretty thick, non-grey hair, except for some of my beard. I'm actually good-looking? This might have been nice to know before.
I mean, I'm still a mentally ill doofus, but OK.
A couple of days I was talking to my shrink & she said the physical stuff I beat myself up over is a) fixable & b) stuff people largely don't care about.
Now I'm realizing that for my age, I'm actually pretty lucky in the looks department. I often read as younger than I am. I still have pretty thick, non-grey hair, except for some of my beard. I'm actually good-looking? This might have been nice to know before.
I mean, I'm still a mentally ill doofus, but OK.
